Dater Burnout

The thing about online dating, is that your pool is only as good as the other people looking. I mean, technically, this is true in real life too. But just not as obvious. And with some apps and their algorithms, I think they are trying to keep people from matching. Keep their user numbers up? […]

The Blonde Boy

I had a first date the other night. This is a guy who I met through Bumble. I wasn’t too sure what to expect. He seemed nice, we didn’t chat tons before the date, so I had fairly low expectations. He will be known hence forth as the Blonde Boy, or BB for short. Because […]

What are you looking for?

“So what are you looking for?” “I don’t know. Renting with the option to buy?” “What are you looking for in a date?” “‘in a date’ as in the event, or as in the guy?” It’s these kinds of questions that I hate about online dating. It isn’t so bad if you are out, you’ve […]

Tinder Social

As if online dating isn’t confusing enough. As if half of us aren’t millennials with our brains hard wired to instinctively know how every app works. As if it wasn’t confusing enough to figure out the strategy I wanted to use for this app. Then they go and update it. They change it. They make […]