When is it ok to have a threesome?

I’m out with my friend, in the Spaniard’s neighborhood. There was no communication after the last date. I took the chance and sent a quick message that we were trying a spot he recommended. His response was short and I didn’t push for more conversation. My friend and I continue our wine and dinner night, […]

Blondie Update

Blonde Boy (BB) and I finally coordinated for a 2nd date. He suggested brunch. In this neck of the woods (Cleveland) that usually means Sunday noonish. He surprised me by clarifying that he meant Saturday. He suggested that I pick a place closer to me. SIDE NOTE: Cleveland restaurants seem to think that Sunday is […]

Swan Song

I think MJ is a weirdo for staying up all night. Maybe he thinks I’m a weirdo for something? I wouldn’t be surprised. We are in the weird dating phase. Or Zone. There wasn’t anything major that came up in the first three months. You know, when you are both on your best behavior, so […]

Throwbacks

There are Plenty of Fish out in that there sea, but only a few are a real catch. Its a gnarly game of catch and release. Its been a while. I haven’t been on the dating sites much, but here are a few of the most awesome messages I’ve encountered in the last month. Bachelor […]

Dating Patterns

I’m noticing I have a pattern. I know it hasn’t been very long for me to say as such, but hear me out. I sign up for whatever dating app and I start chatting with several guys. Those who are actually interested in me will eventually ask me out, and I will say yes. Because, […]

Exclusivity Devide

Do men think we are all just waiting for them to decide to be our boyfriend? Are guys just as insecure spending the first month wondering if the girl is dating other people and where they might fall in rank? Do men stare at their phone waiting for the next text to come from that […]

Throwbacks

There are Plenty of Fish out in that there sea, but only a few are a real catch. Its a gnarly game of catch and release. Bachelor #1 The message this guy sent me said nice things, but I can tell by this guy’s pictures that I wouldn’t be into him. And then reading this, […]