It’s been a year. Since I found out my ex was having a long term affair. Since I learned who the affair was with. Since I asked him to leave. Since we started lawyer and dissolution processes. Since I started going to therapy regularly. That’s one of the reasons why I’m doing this blog anonymously. […]

What are you looking for?

“So what are you looking for?” “I don’t know. Renting with the option to buy?” “What are you looking for in a date?” “‘in a date’ as in the event, or as in the guy?” It’s these kinds of questions that I hate about online dating. It isn’t so bad if you are out, you’ve […]

Bae Be Cray

Full tilt crazy town. #ThisIsWhyYouAreSingle #SingleBecause I woke up to a barrage of texts Tuesday night – well Wednesday morning really. I responded. Calmly. I didn’t want to fight. I’m not trying to make enemies. And you really can’t argue with crazy. I’ve heard him rant before. There is no talking someone down who has […]

Tinder Social

As if online dating isn’t confusing enough. As if half of us aren’t millennials with our brains hard wired to instinctively know how every app works. As if it wasn’t confusing enough to figure out the strategy I wanted to use for this app. Then they go and update it. They change it. They make […]

Welcome to Paradise

I usually post a few times a week. I have a ton of drafts, and I thought while I was on vacation I might have time to sneak onto the computer and publish a few. Welp. That didn’t happen. What happened instead was a lot of down time being really bored in a city of […]